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“ONCE A GOOD GIRL GOES BAD is she really gone forever?”
This is one of the most controversial topics of our decade. We all know the definition of a stereotypical “good girl” but to really grasp the essence of a “good girl gone bad“
we must first turn off the TV and realize that people like Rihanna and Brittney Spears are celebrities, it’s there job, they do this sh*t for show! However, In the real world EVERY girls goes through that “bad girl” stage. We all have our own reasons for converting be it, our first broken heart, growing up too sheltered, or just the urge to let loose.
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BEING A BAD GIRL isn’t always so bad! the “bad girl” stage is the most important phase in a woman’s life and she gets that first taste of the dark side. This is the time in her life that she will never forget because the most valuable lessons have been learned. She will loose the most friends, have the most sex, drink the most alcohol, loose the most sleep, do the most partying, date the worst guys, and say the mot belligerent things out of that I DON’T GIVE A F*** mouth. On the contrary, She learns that everyone doesn’t have her best interests at heart and the people she thought were her friends just wanted her to pay. That boy she thought was her man just wanted her sex. That alcohol she was drinking can’t hold her at night.
WHEN IT ALL FALLS DOWN she learns that the love of attention and recognition is as trapping as the lack of desire to be free. During that journey of breaking free from the labels she gets in touch with her own strength, confidence, and spirituality whatever that may be. The end result will be a strong woman who over came headaches and heartbreaks. She will become wise through reflection and learn the essence of life. As for the bad, it will remain, but only the late night behind closed doors bad. Being a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets is a lesson learned from channeling the good and the bad and using it to the best of her advantage at the same damn time. So when the question is raised “Once a good girl goes bad is she gone forever” It’s not a matter of staying bad or turning good, growing and mastering the art of womanhood is what it all falls down to.
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words by: Amirah Al-Uqdah- @amira_nia